Why I am Choosing the Single Life


pexels-photo-196667I went through a break up over the summer and it was hard. We were together for about 3 years, but it just didn’t work out. I’ve been focusing on myself and haven’t been interested in the dating world.

I’ve been focusing on myself and haven’t been interested in the dating world. My heart was broken and I wanted to take some time to heal.

Earlier this week, a guy from my past reached out to me and we started talking. Now I remember why he is from my past! He was nice at first & made me feel like he just wanted to be friends and start to hang out again…to get to know me better. He said sweet things and made me feel good for the first time in a while.

I was ok with that until I woke up to a message on facebook from him asking me what color panties I was wearing! WTF! Yeah, he’s just as much of a jerk as he was before. The worst part is I told him over the phone the night before that I am not interested in having  a sexual relationship with someone. I am just not ready for that.

This is why I am choosing the single life. He talked so sweet to me and was ok at first with just being friends only, but then not even a full day later, he’s trying to make a move on me. I am so over it!

I will focus on myself for now and one day I know I will meet the right man. The type of man who will treat me with respect and not just try to get in my pants. I will wait forever for that if I have to. I’m almost 32 and I don’t have the patience for anyone who won’t treat me the way I deserve.

Stay true to your heart ladies and don’t let someone try to talk you into anything you don’t want and don’t feel comfortable with. You deserve much better!



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